Vim soft wrap with auto-intensive

In Vim, is there a way to softly wrap text, autoindent, but also give the appearance that soft wrapped lines are autoindividual?

eg. but not:

1 hello
2     one two three four five six seven eight nine 
  ten eleven twelve thirteen fourteen fifteen sixteen 
  seventeen 
3 blah blah

      

        
        
        
      

    

I want it to look like this:

1 hello
2     one two three four five six seven eight nine 
      ten eleven twelve thirteen fourteen fifteen 
      sixteen seventeen 
3 blah blah

      

        
        
        
      

    

But for a text file it should actually be the following:

1 hello
2     one two three four five six seven eight nine ten eleven twelve thirteen fourteen fifteen sixteen seventeen 
3 blah blah

      

        
        
        
      

    

So there are no actual tabs (or 4-space blocks) between nine

and ten

or between fifteen

and sixteen

- this is only part of how text is displayed in Vim, not the content of the file.

Some other text editors (like Geany) seem to do this automatically, but I can't seem to figure out how to do it in Vim.